Tuesday, June 26, 2012

Gravedona

During my extended absence from blogging I unfortunately missed the opportunity to post about some of the vacations we have taken since we moved here last summer. I hope to go back and recap as much as possible to record the memories here, so they may live to infinity and beyond. Or at least until the Blogger gods decide to delete them.

Choosing a vacation destination here in Europe has proved to be a challenge because I want to go everywhere and see everything, but time and financial constraints limit our adventure capabilities. So that means that making a decision is a pretty serious process that requires a ton of research and some help from my trusty old Magic 8 Ball. When I asked it if we should go back to Italy over Spring Break even though we had spent Thanksgiving weekend in Venice, it said: "Yes, Definitely." So we did.

I have to confess that I am drawn to Italy. A year before we arrived here, I promised myself that our first big trip would be to the Veneto Region...mostly because we wanted Hannah to see where she was born. We moved away from Vicenza when she was six months old in the fall of 1996, and we hadn't been back to Italia since then. Over the years I have fantasized over my memories of the trattorias, the vineyards, the open air markets, the wisteria-covered terraces, the sunflower fields, and the poppies that color the landscape in the springtime. I can't describe how much I missed indulging in the pasta and the bread and the cheese and the wine. I have longed for that rustic aura that permeates everything from the old villas to the stone churches to the sound of the church bells that used to wake me up at an ungodly hour every morning. In fact there have been many times in that period between then and now, though I may have lived in Georgia or Rhode Island or Florida, when I would hear the church bells in the morning before I opened my eyes. And for a brief moment I was back in Italy again. At least until I woke up and realized that I had been dreaming of a time passed by. After so many years, I began to wonder if it had been a dream after all. If not for the proof of Hannah's birth certificate, I might believe that it had been.

With so many years to reminisce, it's easy to imagine why I have placed Italy on a pedestal. I know I should be exploring other countries, but none of them seem to beckon me in the same way. Admittedly I find Vicenza to have changed a lot, it's more industrialized and busy, and so much less idyllic than my memory serves. Nonetheless I still feel a bond with this country, so that is why we went back for Spring Break. This time we chose Lake Como.

I found Residence Ca Felicita in Gravedona on Booking.com. I thought it would be located right on the shore of the lake, but we discovered after a long, winding, harrowing drive up a roughly paved road built just wide enough for a Fiat that the villa apartment was actually pretty damn high up a mountain. It's still a mystery as to how we got our BMW through those streets, but we made it. And the view from our balcony was worth every cuss word and bead of sweat we shed along the way.


The view.


It was too cold to swim the week we were there, but I still enjoyed kicking my feet up by the pool after our long days of hiking. Ahhh...


Residence Ca Felicita. Maurizio, the owner, spared no costs when building this investment. Everything was made with granite and the finest materials, modern and beautiful. We were in the Allegra apartment, which had 2 bedrooms, 2 full baths, 2 balconies, lots of closet space, a nice living room and dining area, with a full modern kitchen. There was a fabulous grocery store nearby so we cooked several meals in the apartment to save money. Food shopping is one of my favorite things to do in Italy, so this was ideal for me.


We took the ferry to Bellagio to look for George Clooney. We did not find him, but I did find a gorgeous leather Bottega Veneta bag at a cute little boutique. The lady who owned it was a trip. I would love to get back and visit her some day.


Myriads of tulips and pansies decorated the shorelines. There were also a lot of swans and they were mean. We witnessed a bit of swan violence while we were waiting for our ferry.


MM and Casey, riding the ferry back to Menaggio. 


My two guys again, in Gravedona. This was early one morning before the fog lifted.


Gravedona, center of town.


Some days were rainy and chilly. Cappuccino saved me.


View from a hike I went on with Georgia. She was my hiking buddy. This one we were walking downhill from our apartment to the center of Gravedona. The weather was perfect that day, how lucky we were!


Wisteria. Just like my Italian memories.


Menaggio. This was a picturesque, flowery town where we caught the ferry. Wished I had more time to explore it, but there are only 24 hours in a day. Dammit.


Lunch al fresco in Bellagio. Bon appetito!

Honestly I took over 1,000 photos in Lake Como. I wish I could share them all, because it was like visiting a postcard world. I think it was one of the most beautiful places I have ever seen. I dream of going back some day, except it would be difficult to justify that with all the other countries we should be exploring. One year is already over and time is ticking by quickly. 

I will end this post with an excerpt of a poem entitled "Cadenabbia" by Henry Wadsworth Longfellow. Cadenabbia is one of the Lake Como towns. Obviously he felt the same way about Lake Como as I do.


The hills sweep upward from the shore,
With villas scattered one by one
Upon their wooded spurs, and lower
Bellaggio blazing in the sun.
And dimly seen, a tangled mass
Of walls and woods, of light and shade,
Stands beckoning up the Stelvio Pass
Varenna with its white cascade.
I ask myself, Is this a dream?
Will it all vanish into air?

Is there a land of such supreme

And perfect beauty anywhere?

Sweet vision! Do not fade away;

Linger until my heart shall take

Into itself the summer day,

And all the beauty of the lake.

Linger until upon my brain

Is stamped an image of the scene,

Then fade into the air again,

And be as if thou hadst not been.

Varenna

Monday, June 25, 2012

How Many Goodbyes....

How many times does an Army family say goodbye?

We go through this every year. If we aren't moving, then people are moving away from us. Our neighbors, classmates, gym buddies, coworkers, soccer pals, etc. We are lucky if we get to know them a year or two. And we are especially lucky if we are able to develop a special bond or friendship with any one of them...if the chemistry is right, and the circumstances allow for it, and of course, if there is enough time to get to know them that well.

And if we do, then that makes it even harder when one of us has to leave. Because inevitably, it will happen. This is the Army after all.

So, because we go through this every year, we know the outcome ahead of time. It's not a surprise, or a shock; we are always forewarned. Since we have been down this road again and again, we know the risk we take in breaking down our walls and letting people in. Allowing the friendships to matter to us; allowing them to bloom, to flourish, and to become central to our lives. We take the armor off our hearts and let ourselves become vulnerable to the heartache that we will eventually feel when we have to say goodbye. Again.

So tonight, as we stood outside our house shivering in the cool Bavarian June air, crying our eyes out, saying goodbye to the Dillons, I watched my daughter hug her best friend, Anne, goodbye. And all the memories of the past year swam by me, and I recalled the first time Anne showed up to our door, and attempted to befriend Hannah. But Hannah wouldn't come out of her bedroom to meet her because she was still mourning the loss of her last best friend, Dominique. And she was probably thinking she wasn't ready to let go of her Florida life; and she wasn't ready to want another friend; and probably, in the subconscious of her mind, she was thinking she didn't want to ever go through this again.

But of course she did. Why? Because it's a need that most of us humans have; to love and to be loved. To laugh, to have friends we can share our best and worst moments with; to trust; to show them our selves so we can see our own self more clearly. To get through the hard times, to celebrate the good times. To have someone to go to the mall with and bake cookies with and watch movies with. Because this is what life is all about.

We will miss you Anne. No one more than Hannah. But because of how much I love my daughter, it might even hurt me more.



"Don't cry because it's over. Smile because it happened."

Life is a Bowl of Cherries

I thought this tree was beautiful in the early spring, when it blossomed. But nothing compares to what it has given us this summer:





Amsterdam

Our big summer getaway was Amsterdam. MM and I went for a belated anniversary weekend and left the kids at home to fend for themselves.

We drove to the outskirts of the city. Found a Park & Ride in Gaasperplas, which was Euro 8 per day plus free tickets on the Metro to and from the lot. The Metro was just a few meters away, though the young a-hole working at the P & R office kept pointing us in the wrong direction. (I'm sure it gave him a good laugh to watch the two dumb American tourists walking around aimlessly like a couple of baffoons.) MM wanted to kick his ass but I thought that would be a bad way to start our vacation.

So we took the Metro to Centraal Station, then Tram 9 to Rembrandtplein, and our hotel was right there in the midst of it all. Hotel Imperial on Thorbreckeplein (not sure if I'm spelling any of these words correctly.) After two close calls, I learned how dangerous it was to step into the bike path. Amsterdam is the city of a million bicycles, or so they say. I think it's probably more like a million and ten.

We rang the bell to the hotel and there was no answer. Some guy sitting at the table in the Italian restaurant next door yells at us in a New York Woody Allen-like accent: "You were supposed to be here two hours ago!"

Welcome to Amsterdam. And to think I spent half the ride there studying the "How To Speak Dutch" book I checked out of the library. In Amsterdam, English is the language of choice. Our first impression was that it was loud, busy, dirty, and most of the people were rude. By the end of our second day, we realized our first impression was correct....but in a very fun, good way. I can't wait to go back.

Random question: Why are there so many Argentinian BBQ restaurants in Amsterdam?




Kids ride in the box up front.


In the city of a million bicycles, people have to be pretty creative to personalize their own.


On our way back home we stopped to visit Kinderdijk where there are 19 famous windmills recognized by UNESCO and are World Heritage listed. (I don't really know what that means, but that's what the tour book said.) It was indeed a sight to see. We rented bikes for 2.50 Euro each and set off down a path through the canals where we were able to take some really cool pictures and see a lot of geese and sheep along the way. Not to mention a lot of old people riding bikes. I can't help but think, in America, these people would be in wheelchairs or nursing homes. In Holland they are still enjoying the prime of their lives. Why is that? How did America get so lazy? And why don't we have windmills? From what I have read, they were built in the 1700's and were revolutionary in water management and power conservation. It makes me wonder why centuries later, we don't work harder to find better solutions to our problems. But that's a whole can of worms for another post.


Friday, June 15, 2012

June Stuff


Casey turned eight on June 23rd. He was surrounded by family, legos, and pretty girls.


All he wanted for his cake was a big chocolate chip cookie that said Happy Birthday Casey.

 On the last day of Elementary School for Georgia, she received the Presidents Award for Academic Excellence. Criteria for this award: Student had to have a 3.5 average every term in 4th, 5th, and 6th grades, with absolutely nothing below a B on any of their report cards. They had to score above the 85th percentile on all their standardized tests between 4th-6th grades. Georgia was one of the 11 students at Hohenfels Elementary to receive this outstanding honor. Way To Go, GEO! (That was my moment of bragging!)


 This was for the Army's birthday, June 14, 2012. My last cake before summer break. I donated it to the 1-4 Infantry Block Party, where we enjoyed a battalion BBQ, a pie-in-the-face fundraiser, dunk booth, and raising $1150 to shave CSM Hendricks' mustache.

Celebrating 19 years of marriage at Korfu in Parsberg. Opah!

Goede Reis!

We leave tomorrow for Amsterdam. Just MM and me. We are like totally stoked. The forecast is calling for rain but who cares? VACATION WITHOUT THE KIDS....WOOT WOOT! Time to be wild, live it up, do all the things we normally can't do because we are responsible parents...like try to stay awake past 10pm.

The most difficult thing about vacation is packing. What to wear that is travel practical yet hip? Shoes that are comfortable enough to walk in and yet still stylish? A jacket that will keep me dry in the rain and still be a fashion statement? As if my shoes matter. Somehow we always end up looking like awkward American tourists. Maybe it's because I take pictures of everything, from the shop windows to the drinks we order to the shoes that everyone else is wearing.

Meanwhile I'll keep working on the laundry mountain in hopes that I will find something nice to pack. And since I did not lose the 15 lbs I had hoped to lose before this trip, hopefully the mirrors in our hotel room will be slimming. That always makes for a great ego boost and funner vacation.

Wish us luck on our journey. Or as they say in Holland: "Goede reis!"

Tuesday, June 12, 2012

Congratulations and Cake

Yesterday our good friend and next door neighbor Bryan got promoted to colonel. I made his cake. This is the time of year for celebrations (promotions, Change of Commands, etc.) and I have been busy!